I am a Proud Chubbycheeker :)

This time, I wanna talk about something attached to our face, which are cheeks. Are you confident enough with your cheeks? Some people will say yes and the rest says otherwise. The answer might depend on how our cheeks look like. People with perfect cheekbone might enjoy every single angle of photo shoot, choose various hairstyles, wear many different hijab styles, put on any kind of eye wear, etc. Unfortunately, such kind of freedom can't be claimed by chubbycheekers (I name it totally, unequivocally, at my will) :-P. They (including the writer) tend to be picky when they should pose in front of camera, try new haircut, pick up hijab style etc. Speaking of posing in front of camera, chubbycheekers might trick the camera by taking angle into consideration, defy a few degree from the camera, avoid being taken from direct front side. For example: 

The girl in the picture has chubby cheeks, so she takes her picture from a certain angle to make her face thinner. :)

A proud chubbycheeker

Look at her veil style too! It is advisable for chubbycheekers to wear hijab that covers inner cheekbone.

Okay now, how about haircut? Longer hair is the best choice to minimize the fatness of cheek. Multilayer hair will make your cheeks thinner. To add, bangs also play important role to make your face slimmer.

Now, wanna some tips for reducing chubby cheek? Try the following things

1. regular workout
2. healthy diet
3. take a break
4. sufficient sleep hour
5. etc.

However, not all those tips and tricks above entirely apply to me. I'm a chubbycheeker but I have pixie haircut. And I'm doing so good with it. I'm also proud of my chubby cheek. I'm not afraid of taking my whole-side cheek picture. I just chill out and smile. Wanna some secrets?. All you have to do is getting along with what God has given to us. Be thankful, guys. And you'll love it. You are special. Well, I documented it. Look, who's heeeeeere?

 Dilarang protes ya, Mbak, Mas, Bu, Pak

Next, wanna hear my say about this? In my own view, being a chubbycheeker is not a barrier for being pretty and confident. It has something to do with mind. If we think we're looking good and awesome, so does our aura. Believe me, people around you will feel the aura you sparkle. I always think people can't be physically classified into ugly and pretty. They are just unique. They are beautiful in their own way. Why? Because I'm so sure about the longevity of good deeds and the "untimely death" of good looks. 

PS: The writer suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder and happens to be a proud chubbycheeker.
       I love you, fellas.
       Happy Friday
       Have a blast weekend


MH
SD Darul Hikam Library 2.22 July 26, 2013

Narcisism

Do you consider yourself narcissistic? If your answer yes, we're at the same shelter. Okay, let's dig deeper understanding about narcissistic itself. The word narcissistic is the adjective form of narcissism, which is a noun. Narcissism originates from "the Greek myth in which Narcissus, a beautiful young man, fell in love with his own reflection in a pool. He died and was changed into the flower which bears his name". (Oxford Advance Learner's Dictionary). Afterwards, narcissism is defined "too much interest in and admiration for your own physical appearance and/or your own abilities". (Cambridge Advance Learner's Dictionary). People who own this criteria are called narcissist. Our next question is is it okay or allowed or harmless to be a narcissist?

Psychologists view narcissism as one of mental disorder called Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). It is indicated from the following behaviors: 

1. admiring themselves too much
2. act out/pose in front of mirror so often
3. be sensitive to criticism
4. drama queen
5. too much acting
6. antisocial 
7. boastful/too proud of everything
8. consider themselves special
9. etc

Such kind of behavior is caused by environment and gene. People who live their life with so much admiration around them tend to possess this *"disease". An acute narcissism needs further treatment such as psychotherapy. Okay.....that's enough for "light" reading. I'm not into this study field. :)

In my opinion, as a late teen not a woman yet haha :), a teacher, being narcissistic could be a solution and danger. People will always try to boost their self-esteem.To make it happen, they try to be confident for everything they have. In this case, narcissism help them look up, stand tall without feeling isolated or humiliated. They won't stoop so low because of having flaw here and there. In my case, educational field,  students who keep boastful about their intelligence or abilities perform so well in the classroom environment. They also can help their friend who belongs to slow learner criteria. 

But, being overconfident due to narcissism is a danger. People won't be happy because no one likes to be around a braggart. So, be watchful, people. Please do measure your narcissism level.In what level do you belong. If the level is still be tolerable, you're okay with folks around you. Be confident, not overconfident!

Happy Wednesday... :)

PS: This writing is inspired from Whatsapp conversation with my fellow teacher. :)

MH

SD Darul Hikam Library 9.56 July 24, 2013 

Self-Check

I'm not sure how long I don't write anymore and visited my own blog. I keep blaming hectic schedule for that. It sounds irresponsible, isn't it? I have a bunch of reasons though as to why I "lay dormant" for such a long time. First of all, I am so keen on writing something like drama queen story. I'm easily inspired when something bad happens to me. For example, when I was in college, there were so much turn and twist in my love and life. I didn't like it at all but suddenly I could write something. Some people read my words. Aaaaand the biggest inspiration in my life during that "mellow age" was my ex-boyfriend. Time flies. Gradually, I forget him. Now, we remain best friend, but he doesn't give me a flash of brilliant inspiration. I still can't write.


Second one, I have ever suffered from "fed-up-with-blog-syndrome". I don't know whether the syndrome applies  to other or not. For such a long time, I don't want to write a single word.

Third one, I don't know what to write.


MH
Darul Hikam 09.47 July 23, 2013