Narcisism

Do you consider yourself narcissistic? If your answer yes, we're at the same shelter. Okay, let's dig deeper understanding about narcissistic itself. The word narcissistic is the adjective form of narcissism, which is a noun. Narcissism originates from "the Greek myth in which Narcissus, a beautiful young man, fell in love with his own reflection in a pool. He died and was changed into the flower which bears his name". (Oxford Advance Learner's Dictionary). Afterwards, narcissism is defined "too much interest in and admiration for your own physical appearance and/or your own abilities". (Cambridge Advance Learner's Dictionary). People who own this criteria are called narcissist. Our next question is is it okay or allowed or harmless to be a narcissist?

Psychologists view narcissism as one of mental disorder called Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). It is indicated from the following behaviors: 

1. admiring themselves too much
2. act out/pose in front of mirror so often
3. be sensitive to criticism
4. drama queen
5. too much acting
6. antisocial 
7. boastful/too proud of everything
8. consider themselves special
9. etc

Such kind of behavior is caused by environment and gene. People who live their life with so much admiration around them tend to possess this *"disease". An acute narcissism needs further treatment such as psychotherapy. Okay.....that's enough for "light" reading. I'm not into this study field. :)

In my opinion, as a late teen not a woman yet haha :), a teacher, being narcissistic could be a solution and danger. People will always try to boost their self-esteem.To make it happen, they try to be confident for everything they have. In this case, narcissism help them look up, stand tall without feeling isolated or humiliated. They won't stoop so low because of having flaw here and there. In my case, educational field,  students who keep boastful about their intelligence or abilities perform so well in the classroom environment. They also can help their friend who belongs to slow learner criteria. 

But, being overconfident due to narcissism is a danger. People won't be happy because no one likes to be around a braggart. So, be watchful, people. Please do measure your narcissism level.In what level do you belong. If the level is still be tolerable, you're okay with folks around you. Be confident, not overconfident!

Happy Wednesday... :)

PS: This writing is inspired from Whatsapp conversation with my fellow teacher. :)

MH

SD Darul Hikam Library 9.56 July 24, 2013